Fixer-Uppers; Fixing Him, Won’t Fix You.

Sometimes we find ourselves drawn to “fixer uppers.”
Not houses. Not projects. People.

And sometimes, if we’re honest, it’s because fixing them feels easier than facing the cracks in ourselves.

After divorce, the temptation is strong — grab onto someone, anyone, to fill the silence. But if we skip the self-work, we risk attracting the very same brokenness we just fought to leave behind.

Here’s the truth: you attract your vibration.
If you’re hurting and unhealed, you’ll draw in people who are carrying their own wounds like heavy baggage. But when you commit to becoming healthy, whole, and genuinely happy, you’ll attract others on that same frequency.

Do the self-work. Heal the pieces. Learn to love your own company. Because when you rise, your circle rises with you. And the love you attract will feel completely different — not a project, not a rescue, but a partnership.

You deserve that. Always.

What kind of energy are you attracting right now?